1. 20:40 31st Aug 2014

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    Anonymous said: so... u actually stole the cheese?

    okay so here’s the thing. it was the day the kings won the stanley cup so i started drinking during like the first period and the game went to /double overtime/ and i’d switched from champagne to vodka by then so like my memories of that night are incredibly hazy and mostly i just rambled in french on twitter while all my friends reminded me that actually literally none of them know french. but i woke up the next day with vague memories of swiss cheese and an empty swiss cheese package but no idea whether it was a packet that i’d stolen while drunk or if it was cheese that i’d eaten before and just not thrown the package away. and since then my mother has been either 1 incredibly supportive of my general interest in swiss cheese or 2 embarking on a subtle and soul-destroying campaign to guilt me into admitting that i took the cheese. now the cheese incident happened 3 months ago. my mother’s most recent cheese-related action was buying a 2 pound bag of swiss cheese which she handed to me and said “because you like swiss cheese so much.” that was two weeks ago. she’s made me like 4 grilled swiss cheese sandwiches since then.

    i still don’t know if i took the cheese or not.

     
  2. 16:37

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    Anonymous said: hey sarah, so i'm really only sending this b/c liquid courage but we used to be friends and then we had a falling out, and i'm also dealing with a lot depression sort of stuff right now and i'd like to reconnect if you're interested. wishing you the best ★

    YES LET’S BE FRIENDS

    you can follow (or re-follow idk) me on twitter @antitaohun. i talk about exactly 5 things there and they are 1 exo 2 hockey 3 how much i hate not being able to talk 4 animes 5 my opinions on salads and potatoes and more specifically potato salad

    if those are things that you have any interest in (or maybe you just want to hear about my mother’s passive aggressive plan to give me swiss cheese every day until i admit that i stole and ate all of her swiss cheese while drunk) then you should follow me or you can just message me here i guess

    and i hope your depression things get better and even if you decide not to refollow me (because i completely get how difficult that can be after you’ve fallen out with someone) i still hope that you message me here if you ever need someone to talk to or someone to just tell you that you’re okay and you can get through it

     
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  4. I think one thing you can do to help your friends who are depressed is to reach out to them not in the spirit of helping, but in the spirit of liking them and wanting their company. “I’m here to help if you ever need me” is good to know, but hard to act on, especially when you’re in a dark place. Specific, ongoing, pleasure-based invitations are much easier to absorb. “I’m here. Let’s go to the movies. Or stay in and order takeout and watch some dumb TV.” “I’m having a party, it would be really great if you could come for a little while.” Ask them for help with things you know they are good at and like doing, so there is reciprocity and a way for them to contribute. “Will you come over Sunday and help me clear my closet of unfashionable and unflattering items? I trust your eye.” “Will you read this story I wrote and help me fix the dialogue?” “Want to make dinner together? You chop, I’ll assemble.” “I am going glasses shopping and I need another set of eyes.” Remind yourself why you like this person, and in the process, remind them that they are likable and worth your time and interest.

    Talk to the parts of the person that aren’t being eaten by the depression. Make it as easy as possible to make and keep plans, if you have the emotional resources to be the initiator and to meet your friends a little more than halfway. If the person turns down a bunch of invitations in a row because (presumably) they don’t have the energy to be social, respect their autonomy by giving it a month or two and then try again. Keep the invitations simple; “Any chance we could have breakfast Saturday?” > “ARE YOU AVOIDING ME BECAUSE YOU’RE DEPRESSED OR BECAUSE YOU HATE ME I AM ONLY TRYING TO HELP YOU.” “I miss you and I want to see you” > “I’m worried about you.” A depressed person is going to have a shame spiral about how their shame is making them avoid you and how that’s giving them more shame, which is making them avoid you no matter what you do. No need for you to call attention to it. Just keep asking. “I want to see you” “Let’s do this thing.” “If you are feeling low, I understand, and I don’t want to impose on you, but I miss your face. Please come have coffee with me.” “Apology accepted. ApologIES accepted. So. Gelato and Outlander?”
    — 

    #613: How do I reach out to my friends who have depression? | Captain Awkward

    P.S. A lot of people with depression and other mental illnesses have trouble making decisions or choosing from a bunch of different options. “Wanna get dinner at that pizza place on Tuesday night?” is a LOT easier to answer than “So wanna hang out sometime? What do you want to do?”

    (via startrekrenegades)

    "A depressed person is going to have a shame spiral about how their shame is making them avoid you and how that’s giving them more shame, which is making them avoid you no matter what you do." <- Quite possibly the most important thing to be said about caring for a depressed person.

    (via dildarium)

     
  5. jeffreyfreakingcarter:

    i think the stars are trying to set jamie benn up

     
  6. kanentokon:

    if someone is showing off their tattoo and it’s fresh and they’re happy about it do not fucking make fun of it i don’t care how pretentious or typical or pseudo-artsy you think it is if another human being shelled out a large sum of money to have something permanently etched onto their body and they are happy and proud of it do not fucking try to make them feel bad about it especially if it was a really big tattoo. holy shit.

    (Source: happyurepii)

     
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  8. 08:45

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    Reblogged from ardonye

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    nabegewell:

    of course delaware pirate goat simulator
    its all we have here

    (Source: liveinsidelikeits1999)

     
  9. look at that body, i work out" - jonathan toews, probably

    (Source: glovehand)

     
  10. 13:00

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    Reblogged from blameitonthesnow

    Tags: crossing animalsoh my godi'm crying